I learned that to know what love is, we have to learn to identify what love is not. 

My latest revelation pertains to this concept of affinity. By definition - it is a spontaneous interest for something or someone. This is probably the main characteristic of modern dating, and I hate it. Why? Because it’s not love. 

Not to say that our affinities would not lead us to Love, it could. But it all depends on what you choose to do with this “spontaneous interest”.

So the challenge question is - “Do we settle with just being interested?”

Where will your affinities take you?